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Like every parent, when my kids were tiny, my husband and I made all the decisions, from what they’d eat for breakfast to when they’d go to bed. In the toddler years, we even chose their playmates since, most often, they were the conveniently timed offspring of our own friends.

By preschool, my kids were finding their own pals and having their first play dates. Sometimes I’d tag along, either because somebody had cold feet about going to a new house, or because I needed to see first hand that my daughter’s new friends were NOT the spawn of serial killers.

Now that my girls are older, I have less say in all matters. I’m not spooning rice cereal into their breakfast bowls, I’m no longer enforcing a 7 p.m. bedtime, and I’m not choosing their friends. This is all to be expected and I was managing well until last year when my oldest daughter began high school, which meant a whole new set of peers, most of whom I didn’t know. Many lived in other towns with parents I’d never met. Would the groundwork we laid for making good choices in friends stick?

I worried less once my daughter fell into friendships with a terrific group of girls. But it’s different now. She manages her social life entirely without me and making connections with the parents of her pals doesn’t come as effortlessly as it once did.

Thus, there was something especially poignant when one of her friends arrived at the house one recent evening, an overnight bag in one hand with everything she’d need for a sleepover.  In the other?  A pint-size jar filled with lentil salad flecked with fresh mint and feta cheese, all tied up with a ribbon: A gift, from her mother’s kitchen to mine.

I opened up the jar and dug my spoon right in, savoring the delicious handmade salad. I knew then that my daughter was in good hands with this girl. The love and care behind her mother’s lentils couldn’t possibly be the work of a serial killer.

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  1. 03.20.2014 at 7:12 AM #

    This lentil salad is gorgeous. Every last flavor makes me happy!

    • katiemorford
      03.20.2014 at 11:10 AM #

      Thanks Heather. Love this combo of mint and feta.

  2. Mary Frances Ellison
    03.20.2014 at 8:40 AM #

    This looks great! Definitely going to pick up some French/Dupuy lentils …

    [I haven't cooked them in a long time, and I forget the amount of cooking time - could you put it in your recipe to save me looking it up? Currently says "Simmer until the lentils are just tender, but not mushy (x to x minutes)."]


    • katiemorford
      03.20.2014 at 11:09 AM #

      Sorry Mary!…editing oversight. I don’t soak my lentils, but you are welcome to do that and it will reduce cooking time. I added in the cooking time without soaking. I do find the time varies, so best to check in on them to get them just right!

  3. 03.27.2014 at 5:56 AM #

    Thank you for sharing this salad. I have feta needing a new use! Will probably make it with the brown lentils I keep on hand, but have cooked the french lentils before and liked them a lot……just really hard to find them in our rural area!!

    A recipe we love made with brown lentils and
    many variations, follow directions on here:

    • katiemorford
      03.27.2014 at 8:23 AM #

      Thanks Janet. I’ll check out your recipe!


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